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Who Truly Are Your Well-Wishers?

It's difficult for a person to not try to tear you down if they don't want to see you succeed, and it is difficult for someone to not try to help if they want to see you succeed. Some people do things subtly, which generates the fear of being judgemental towards them, thus it is advised to make decisions based on your intuition because intuition is 100% right.

An acquaintance merely enjoys your company, a fair-weather companion flatters when all is well, a true friend has your best interest at heart and the pluck to tell you what you need to hear. Your well-wisher need not be someone who is always around you but they are someone who is always there for you. There is a great difference, people who trust you inspite of you treating them poorly because they can see the light within you and have the courage to bring you out of darkness. Unconditional love is an affection without limits. 

Moreover, there is a grace to be maintained in all relationships & situations, the grace to NOT cross that fine line, a true well-wisher will never support you when you are crossing that fine line, they'll be honest to stand up against your wrong doings, when they know that such actions are damaging. Whereas, others who pretend to be your well-wisher will try to convince you by subtly manipulating you that those wrong acts are because of work, or family requirements or any other reason whatsoever, where they try to make it appear right, pure & fair. Reality lies beyond the appearances. 

A well-wisher will never try to stop you from moving ahead in life, but they will promote you to achieve your goals without losing your moral values, your purity, etc. They will not encourage you to make shallow choices in life. Some people will subtly make you feel, you are obligated, you have responsibilities, make you feel guilty for moving on in life. Discern wisely. A true well-wisher will show you opportunities, will not let you restrict yourself by highlighting your weaknesses or fears, instead show you a way to go through your fears. 

A genuine enemy is more useful than a fake friend. A fake friend is someone who is happy to see you stuck but will pretend to feel sorry for you and at the same time by highlighting your restrictions, fears, obligations that are truly not yours or your weaknesses or by making you feel guilty for that part of the mistake where you truly are not wrong, etc & will help you stay stuck, without you even realising. 

A true well-wisher will promote you towards truth, towards your hearts desire, they'll make you acknowledge your strength, they will show you the way to move forward, they will let you know who is taking your advantage, or where you are giving your power to someone else. They nurture you & not pull you back. 

A fraud friend will never let you see the beauty of character because they fear losing you and that fear is usually not love based but it's because of their own personal advantage that they don't want to lose you. A person who loves you unconditionally will always be honest with you and will promote you towards healthy characteristic goals, because they know the value & depth of moral values and their impact in life. The knives of betrayal & drama cut deep & hurt, but they also trim away nonsense & reveal your true friends. 

I will like to end on the note that sometimes you cut honest love from your lives, simply because you are not able to handle such pure love. Look deep & you will be able to see the true colours of everyone in your life and so I want you to understand that don't let go such beautiful souls because of fear, instead treasure the blessing's you receive & learn to honour it.