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The Virtue of Selfishness!

Nothing good comes easy. Invest in your self development, so when someone tells you you are amazing- you BELIEVE them. It doesn't take a wishbone, it takes a backbone to be your true self. One of the biggest POWER moves is to overcome whatever it is that is holding you back. If you want to accelerate your success, take hold of the inventory of your choices. There is nothing wrong in acknowledging mistakes if we have the will for improvement. Nobody is perfect, we are all work in progress. 

Ditch low limited beliefs with a quick MINDSET shift and go from "what if something bad happens?" to "what if something good happens?" Winning over your self sabotaging beliefs begins in your mind. When you choose the best for yourself, it starts with taking control of your inner world, the quality of your thoughts affect the quality of your actions. 

Take your relationships for example:-
You can't get to the right place hanging around the wrong people. Get your mindset right, get your ambition right and remember when your life gets bigger your circle gets smaller. It's not the quantity but the quality that matters. And it all starts when you ask yourself the right questions:- 
Are the people who you choose to surround yourself with accepting you for who you truly are? Do they respect you and inspire you? Are they open for transparent communication? Do they help you grow? 
Be careful of people who drain your energy by their negativity, who reveal passive aggression, dishonesty or narcissism traits. 

Raising your relationship standards also mean connecting on a deeper level by giving your full attention, love, and effort. By making sacrifices, going out of the way for others, making others feel loved, respected and cherished not tolerated. 

Realise that not everyone can love and respect you, especially when they are struggling to love and respect themselves. Some people will be present in your life but their presence won't feel like a gift, its just like the wrapping is lovely, but the box is empty. Always remember, others actions never define who you are as a person. If someone cheats you, belittles you, hates you, etc. its all a reflection of their internal wounds which needs healing and has nothing to do with you. So don't personalise such acts of others and don't carry the burden that is truly not yours to carry. 

An awakened person has the spirit of a warrior, but is a warm hearted person. Such people do not use their energy to dominate, degrade or destroy by undermining others. Consciously aware people do not use their ego to create a divide, they desire oneness.  If someone keeps taking from your happiness rather than adding to it, empty their spot up in your life, before they empty your spirit.  Healthy relationships deal with life's challenges together, without regularly creating more challenges for each other. Know the difference between stubbornness and refusing to be manipulated.