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REVENGE A dish best served cold.

Revenge proves its own executioner. The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury. Anger, resentment, & jealousy doesn't  change the heart of others- It only changes yours. Revenge may be wicked, but its natural.  The paradox of vengefulness is that it makes men dependent upon those who have harmed them, believing that their release from pain will come only when their tormentors suffer.


Tell me, Is revenge a science, or an art? As psychologists explore the mental machinery behind revenge, it turns out both can be, depending on who & where you are. If you are a power-seeker, revenge can serve to remind others you are not to be trifled with. If you live in a society where the rule of law is weak, revenge provides a way to keep order. Revenge is an act of passion, vengeance of justice. Injuries are revenged; crimes are avenged, but revenge comes at a price. Instead of helping you move on with your life, it can leave you dwelling on the situation & remaining unhappy. Revenge has no more quenching effect on emotions that salt water has on thirst.


Considering revenge is a very human response to feeling slighted, humans are atrocious at predicting its effects. Beware the fury of a patient man. People who are more vengeful tend to be those who are motivated by power, by authority & by the desire for status. They don't  want to lose face. These people tend to be less forgiving, less benevolent & less focused on universal- connectedness- type values.


Revenge is a confession of pain. Anger often drives the vengeful feelings of people in individualistic cultures, while shame powers revenge in collectivist ones.


A thirst for vengeance is nothing if not timeless. The idea of revenge is no doubt delectable- the very phrase just desserts promises a treat- much of its sugar is confined to the coating. The actual execution of revenge carries a bitter cost of time, emotional & physical energy, & even lives. The minute before revenge is savory, but what about the days & weeks that follow? Want revenge? Consider the cost first. Before you embark on the journey of revenge, dig two graves: one for your enemy & one for yourself.
The best revenge is just moving on & getting over it. Don give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer. 


Revenge is Below Me, but accidents Will Happen. Revenge is a dish which tastes best when served cold. Some of the best real life examples of Success is the best revenge!  Many well-known stories have already been posted multiple times:-
-       Tata, Land Rover & Ford.
-       Tata & Taj Hotel.
-       Steve Jobs & Apple.
-       Lamborghini & Ferrari.
-  Brian Acton, Whatsapp & Facebook.
 
Live well. It is the greatest revenge.