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Apologies require taking full responsibility.

Never apologise for showing your feelings. When you do, you are apologising for the truth. There is no sense in saying sorry if you continue to commit your mistakes. An apology is the superglue of life! It can repair just about anything, provided, you make the change required, i.e only if you genuinely correct your mistake along with saying sorry. The difficulty, is not in avoiding death, but in avoiding unrighteousness; for that runs faster than death. Make amendments instead of saying sorry. We all have soft-corners for the one's we love and when our loved one's do us wrong, we forgive them even when they are not sorry, and this way we give them permission somewhere to keep doing wrong with us, so stop and reflect... Will this ultimately lead us towards a good or bad consequence? Think and Act. Truth may hurt for a moment but lieing and cheating will hurt you for life. Some people don't genuinely apologize. Deceit has become their full-out lifestyle. They are centred on themselves with no thoughts of the consequences of their acts. In cowardly style, they tell more lies to try and cover their tracks. They hide and escape from the truth.
                                 Proper communication avoids misunderstandings, and the resultant conflicts. "Sorry" is indeed, one of the most difficult and most powerful words, provided one can feel and say it at the same time. It's difficult because you sincerely need to feel the pain of the other person and  rise above your ego to say it; it is powerful because you overwhelm the other with the opposite reaction of what they were expecting. No half-truths, no partial admissions, belong in any apology. Take responsibility when you do wrong, that will not only earn you more respect but will also build the lost trust.